The Struggle of Growing Up with Black Parents

Disclaimer: Stephy Says 💋 this is a TRIGGER WARNING ⚠️ & while it is not all my personal experience, it is a common one in our culture. I may cause a lot of backlash from the black community but… Can we talk about how much black parents traumatize their children? Or amount of unhealed traumaContinue reading “The Struggle of Growing Up with Black Parents”

Headphones In, World Out

Stephy Says 💋, while typing away at work doing my daily duties, I put my earbuds in and tune out the noise & the office drama. My favorite Pandora stations were playing the best vibing music, and I was in a world of my own. This inspired my post! When you listen to these songs,Continue reading “Headphones In, World Out”

A Letter To My Future Husband…

To my dear husband to be,                 When you found me, I was on a journey of restoration. I was on a path of healing, partially battered & broken, but somehow, you still saw beauty in me. A beauty I struggled to see in myself. You taught me rather quickly that beauty could come fromContinue reading “A Letter To My Future Husband…”